The Cheating Spouse

LADIES PART 1

The typical person has a built in common sense, love will allow the individual to lose the link with reality, and delusion becomes his or her best friend. But that person can not consider themselves a victim because the choice to be oblivious is in fact a choice. Love is beautiful when its real but there are many signs that are easily detectable! Cheaters are not as sly as they'd like to believe.. The sharpest tool is the mind, its capacity is boundless so lets explore the relationship realm!

Ladies men are beyond predictable, the simplicity in their actions make them visable to the naked eye so allow me to take you through typical scenerio's and you tell me.......Is your spouse a cheater?

*Does his cell phone have a personalized code that you do not know?
*When you call his cell phone does he let it ring more then 2 times before answering?
*Does he ever leave the room to have a conversation?
*Before lying in bed does he religiously take a shower?
*Has he stopped asking for Sex?
*Do his friends have a lot of influence on him?
*Does he constantly need space?
*Is he less affectionate?
*Where does he place his wallet and keys when he enters the home?
*Does he suddenly take more interest in his appearance?
*Is he randomly arrogant?
*Does he live on social media?
*Does he flirt via emoji?

These are all ways that you can decide whether or not your spouse has a friend on the side..

• Personal codes mean there is something to hide
• long ringing periods means he's fixing the surroundings before answering your call
• Leaving the room means you wont be happy with the person on the other line
• Although a clean man is way more attractive, a man who can't lie next to you w/o a shower has a secret!
• A man who is easily influenced is by far the worst type of cheater!
• If your man uses any excuse to leave your home, def. has someone to vent to and lets be honest another man is not the listener...
• less affection is a definite sign of a cheater, you may in fact be the main women, but being the main women just means your one of few or many. Every women deserves the opportunity to be the ONLY ONE!
• If a man never empties his pockets, has the tendency to leave the wallet in his pants and the keys in his pants is a sign that he's always ready to go, maybe you should ask to see the contents of his pockets..
• Random arrogance is usually a big sign that someone has him thinking he's the man, usually some lame chick just saying! 
• Social media can kill a lot of relationships not due to lack of strength or insecurity just based off the fact that weak men can't restrain themselves when the candy is so reachable! 
• Those emojis lol seemingly innocent but pack a big punch, don't get me started on hash tags and tagging people (side eye) 

NEVER TRY TO BE SLICK AND LOOK THROUGH HIS BELONGINGS THAT IS A SIGN OF WEAKNESS AND DESPERATION.. A STRONG WOMEN GETS THE SAME ACCOMPLISHED BY KEEPING IT 100.. IF YOU HAVE TO PLAY SPY KICK THAT BROTHER TO THE CURB ASAP!

• If your man suddenly takes way too much time getting fly you have to wonder who he is trying to impress. After a few years a man doesn't try as hard; so be real with it, if he seems like he's spending more time in front of a mirror, it's time to ask questions..

I'm not advising women to go crazy obsessing and over analyzing their men, a desperate and insecure women is pretty wack. Sounds harsh but remember the women is the prize and we are made to honor and love our men but at the same time being oblivious or over bearing is redundant. Men are opportunist and if you open a door they will walk through it.. Sadly at times standards don't apply so it's crucial to make communication your bff and make sure he is on the same page! Cheating is so played out!! Honesty makes a relationship amazing and double lives are headaches, been there done that!

Don't allow insecurity to hurt your ability to be happy. Fat, skinny, ugly, pretty, it doesn't matter, in this world there is someone for everyone, and even if it takes time, you will not be alone forever. The way a women carries herself is the defining character that allows her to have an abundance of choices. Don't let these men fool you, real men don't discriminate!
NEVER SEEK, ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE HUNTED! NEVER SHOW WEAKNESS, MINIMIZE TEARS, ASK DIRECT QUESTIONS, BE STRONG, ALWAYS BE 5 STEPS AHEAD, DISPLAY CONFIDENCE, AND MOST IMPORTANTLY NEVER EVER BEG A MAN FOR NOTHING!!!!!
If he cheats you are not always to blame, and it doesn't always mean it's over, if you still love him after he's cheated, teach him a lesson, set your standard and ensure that your role as fool is a one time only.. You deserve the greatest love of all, so if he goes astray make sure you played no part in his stroll in the park of opportunity, tighten up your lose ends, step your game way up and own your choices! Most men can lie straight face to multiple woman, play out there game by using it repeatedly! Yeah I peeped it player lol

A REAL WOMEN KNOWS THAT THE BALL IS ALWAYS IN HER COURT, THE GAME IS MASTERED BY THE WOMEN WHO CAN NOT BE PLAYED BY OBLIVION.. EYES WIDE OPEN LOCK AND KEY ON YOUR HEART AND SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST!!!

LOVE TO YOU ALL NHM AKA BEEBEE
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PART 2 COMING SOON FOR ALL MY FELLAS