Shattered Assumption of love's Definition

By: NHM

Nedynia H. M 

AKA @NADYNEZWORLD

So many in the world today want to place a definition on emotion without considering the details of the entire emotion. Love is characterized in levels and amounts and desensitized by celebrity interpretation.

You see a rich couple on television and you want to emulate it. The thing is real love can not be reinterpreted or copied. Every situation is like a finger print not one is duplicate, its a unique stain belonging only to the two who share the experience.

Its easy to say that you've known love because the heart is so unbelievably treacherous and cunning but if you are motivated by honesty most times you will find that the need to be valued sometimes supersedes your ability to rationalize hence making you feel like your in love! 

This world provides so many levels of confusion and the pick of the litter is so limited because chivalry has been pronounced long gone in generations before ours. Men show affection with fowl language and sexual innuendo and woman with little choices except just to be excepted. I'm no expert on love but I can proudly say that through pain I've acquired the knowledge to differentiate real love from delusion, not always successfully cause fooled I have been.

Real love is or should not be measured by physical factors rather it should be measured by endurance and by compassion. People who are in love are not immune to imperfection but they try with everything they have to avoid hurting each other and when a painful mistake occurs they live to reestablish their foundation and keep building. Anyone can tell you they love you, in all fairness they may have love for you but if the love is strong enough to be relevant the individual claiming to love you will display it without even saying it.

Two people can have a great time together, make the best love, be the best of friends and never truly understand what is before them. Missing the boat is not a new thing but because no one nowadays understands love to its full, blindness can force you to blink, the thing is blinking is closing your eyes and even if just for a second you can miss exactly what you needed to see! 

Love can not be given a definition because it's more personal than that. No one but you can determine if you've loved or are properly being loved. If you attempt to create a definition of love and your situation doesn't measure up to the standard of your assumption, you may walk away from the love of your life without knowing it until your too late to get it back!

Is love ever going to be perfect, not a chance but every heart deserves to be caressed by love at least once. 

Love can not be defined and trying to define such an amazing feeling might prove to be detrimental. The first step to finding the love of your life is learning to fall in love with yourself first! Definitions imprison the defined by one interpretation. 

Why cage a beautiful bird if all you'll do is bring it pain forcing the inner beauty to be tarnished by devastation! 

ALLOW YOUR HEART TO BE FREE! 

LOVE IS AN ADVENTURE, MANY STORMS, DIFFERENT TERRAIN AND MANY MOUNTAINS TO CLIMB, SOMETIMES CIRCUMSTANCES MAKE IT IMPOSSIBLE TO ATTAIN BUT THAT TOO IS TEMPORARY BECAUSE IF LOVE OR A LOVED ONE IS MEANT TO BE YOURS,

ONE DAY THEY WILL BE!

THANKS FOR READING

NEDYNIA H. M  

FOLLOW ME ON TWITTER

AT 

WWW.TWITTER.COM/NADYNEZWORLD

OR ON INSTAGRAM

@NADYNEZWORLD