IS HE MR RIGHT OR IS HE ALL WRONG? BY: NHM

IS HE MR. RIGHT OR IS HE ALL WRONG?

BY: NHM AKA NADYNEZWORLD

The burning question on the minds of so many eager woman, wanting to be loved and appreciated. Sadly most settle for an infraction of what they deserve so let's us self examine to find out. Are we delusional so much so that we miss the signs, or are we aware but stay anyway. What is a clear sign to figuring out whether you have Mr. Right or Mr. all Wrong? NHM 

Most people today are brain washed by the concept that love is based on how you feel only, but the truth is love has many facets! If you step into the outside world most couples no longer talk, on there personal time there on there phones entertaining strangers on social media but ignoring the person right in front of them. The only time there truly a couple is when they randomly shout each other out by posting a photo with hash tags that never tell the truth! 

So let's explore your situation:

~When he has you in front of him does he take the time to ask you how your day was?

~Does he at least. once a day compliment you?

~How many times does he look at his phone while with you, if more than 5 times, is he bored?

~When in conversation, is he self assuming, always complaining?

~Does he make effort without being coached or lead?

~What does he do to prove that he cares?

All these questions are valid because ignorance is not bliss as the world would have you believe. Think about it what does he really do to make you happy other than be there occasionally? Love stories no longer have those beautiful poetic endings, now a days people are settling for the imitation of love! People take everything for granted, they could have something amazing and neglect it until they destroy it and can no longer identify it! 

~Does he appreciate the things you do?

~Does he thank you or does he expect?

~Is he equal or impartial?

~Does he show you what he feels or does he just speak it?

~If he's not fulfilling a need for whatever reason does he make it up?

~Does he take responsibility for all his actions or is he quick to make excuses?

~IS HE HONEST?

~Is he on time? 

That may sound out on context but a man who is always late is showing you that you are not a priority!

It's important to pay close attention because every sign you miss or choose to ignore will replay in your mind every time you think about how much time you waisted.  

From experience I know what it's like to ignore everything due to the love in your heart! You except all the wrong things for 5 seconds of what feels right. You forgive all the neglect but trust me, you won't succeed with that mentality!

If he is Mr. Right he will live his life showing you the things you need to see. He will make you a priority, maybe not every second but enough to make you feel appreciated! He won't consume himself with his phone or social media, Or even his own problems! He will think about everything and anything that might hurt you and AVOID hurting you! He will tell you the truth even if it hurts, he puts you first, he cares about your day, even the boring parts! 

He's on time because disappointing you hurts him equally! 

He's grateful not by word but by action!

He never expects he is appreciative!

Mr. Right doesn't just take, he gives equally!

If he likes pictures on social media do you have to count or question his interest? Do you find that he involves you or is distant?

Most importantly does he lie, ask yourself How many times has my man lied, got caught red handed in a lie? 

Mr. Right is a man that proves everything by conduct effort and action. He is smart enough to know words have no meaning if they don't live up to there definition!!! 

If he's ignoring you for the world, if he makes no effort to make you feel special, ask yourself HOW MUCH MORE TIME WILL I SPEND GIVING MY ALL TO GET NOTHING? 

Love is a two way street If he is right You will know after this because for the first time someone is saying the questions out loud! Intuition is very powerful, to ignore it is to destroy Yourself!

I CAN NOT TELL YOU IF HE IS MR. RIGHT ONLY YOU CAN KNOW THAT. IF ALL HIS ACTIONS VIOLATE THE PACT BETWEEN YOU AND HIM, HE TRULY DOES NOT BELONG ON YOUR TEAM! HE WILL WEED HIMSELF OUT IT'S YOUR JOB TO STAY SHARP AND CUT THE ROOT STOP IT COMPLETELY FROM INVADING YOUR LIFE! NHM 

As Always My loyal Readers 

Yours Literally and Intellectually 

NHM AKA NADYNEZWORLD

@NHMBLOGGER