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DO NOT EXPECT ANYTHING FROM THIS PIECE EXCEPT THE TRUTH ABOUT MEN! NHM 

IT'S EXPECTED THAT A WOMAN WOULD WRITE ABOUT ALL THE BAD THINGS A MAN COULD DO TO HURT THE RIGHT WOMAN THE THING IS, HOW CAN SHE BE THE RIGHT WOMAN IF HE NEVER BECOMES THE RIGHT MAN? THE MOLDING IS SUPPOSED TO BE MUTUAL. I KNOW FROM EXPERIENCE SOMETIMES YOU JUST CAN'T MOLD SOME PEOPLE TO BE PART OF YOUR PLAN! NO MATTER HOW HARD YOU TRY. NHM  

Ladies have you ever had the experience of being around someone who is a literal emotional roller coaster? One moment you feel like your in pure bliss but instantly your taken to a comedic level where laughter is abundant and nothing of serious content can exist. Then your taken down a down ward spiral from frustration to misunderstanding to an anger that leaves a person unrecognizable all while feeling like, how did I get here? 

Most woman are called emotional and yet what I described is the emotional stages of a man. They want you to be jealous but not too inquisitive, they want you to treat them like a king and shower them with love but don't want you to be mushy. They want attention but they want space, they want loyalty but they flirt and cheat. They want you to be independent but submissive, yet they never take into consideration the weaker vessel. Men are very confusing, all while saying were the ones with the issues! They can flirt (however they do it) but if you do it your done, they want to come and go with little to no questions but need to know your whereabouts at all times. They will answer a text 5 hours late but let them call once and you don't pick up, girl that's your neck! They want you to keep things fresh but are redundant and clueless in behavioral patterns. I'm not man bashing I'm building up to where us woman must be the standard and the molder. 

It's easy to give up on love, chemistry, and connection just because you let go or give up does not mean it wasn't real it simply means it wasn't enough. It's a bit arrogant to consider yourself so above standard but at some point if you see no effort what truly does the fight mean? 

Woman get complacent with just being with someone never taking into notice your really not together even if those are the words promised. Being together is something you feel not just something you say or something you do because it's cool at the moment. If love isn't present and the effort is not made to be a better man daily, no patience in the world will force him to see you and love you the way you need him too. Don't allow yourself to be fooled, love is not something you can pretend even if your the greatest actor. What you don't know is that some people will know exactly what you bring to the table and love you anyway. Some people will stick by you with solid proof that you are not right, those be the ones you miss most when there gone. Life can be very sad when you don't have emotional substance or you allow yourself to live lies, you up now but trust the crash from those falls are disastrous and calamitous! It's a branding you place on yourself for life and even when you change and finally become that quote on quote "BETTER MAN" it is too late to go back and fix the many things you've broken or mend those bridges you without hesitance burned! 

Your actions are what define you, your character is your identity and who you are and who you claim to be are your legacy. 

Both have equal substance because what you say you are is what people expect you to be and who you truly are, is what people actually see and if they don't coincide who truly can trust you? It's easy to take advantage and take a person for granted, sadly some do it without knowledge and some know exactly what they are doing. Either way we can't change people they have to want to change! We can't judge others without first acknowledging ourselves and our own imperfection. Sometimes it is us that create the monster we eventually can't control! Take notice what actions are taken to show you your level of importance and if you don't feel it even after you give your all, he is not the man for you! He might become a better man but not for you! Don't just blame him for not being the man you needed if you didn't insist that from day one! Never carry old baggage but don't stick around for someone who is adding trash and overflowing you with garbage! Don't choose to be gullible that ladies, men can not force! No man is so good that he doesn't get caught, all his transgressions in the dark will come to light and that's his crap to carry! Be strong and love hard but never so hard you hurt and bruise yourself. If he's not bringing nothing to the table stop preparing his meals! NHM

AS ALWAYS YOURS LITERALLY INTELLECTUALLY AND APPRECIATIVE NHM AKA NADYNEZWORLD 

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