TO THINK AND SPEAK THE WORDS YOU WANT TOO TAKES A COURAGE MANY DON'T HAVE, BUT TO IMPRISON YOUR THOUGHTS IS TOO SEE LIFE THROUGH APERTURE WITH A LIMITED VISION AND A LIMITED HAPPINESS. DARKNESS CONSUMES HE OR SHE WHO SEE THE CUP HALF EMPTY THROUGH THE INTERSTICE OF POPULAR OPINION RATHER THAN PERSONAL CHOICE. BE THE YOU, YOU DESIRE, NOT THE YOU THE WORLD WANTS YOU TO BE, AND IF FOR WHATEVER REASON THEY STOP LISTENING IT'S PROBABLY BECAUSE YOUR NOT SPEAKING LOUD ENOUGH! NHM
So many individuals live life according to some pre prepared pattern. Originality is frowned upon while redundancy is revered. If you do what everybody is doing your in popular demand but the minute you decide to step out of the conformity of the basic mind frame you generate a hate that is indescribable. Who decides what is cool, who decides who you should love, who decides what you eat today, if the answer is not you, yourself and you, you have failed yourself!
The truth about life is that most people don't want you to be happy, people that truly want to see you happy will not have an opinion that doesn't coincide with your happiness. The outcome of a situation is not the basis for deciding because it's not beneficial to judge anything before you've given it your best shot. If you want to eat steak today and you can afford it, buy it, cook it and eat it with no regret. If you want to wear a flower dress in winter do it, you freezing your butt off is your problem so if the world wants to judge don't be offended just ask yourself who the hell buys your clothes? If you love the right or wrong person thats again your choice, who has the right to tell you who to be with and what affect they have in your life! If they are not the one holding you down truthfully who cares what others think. We were all born with a heart to use, it being broken is solely your burden to bare! therefore if the heartbreak will only belong to you, whose opinion validates your position better than you?
Most people want to mold the people in there life to benefit themselves, they see you step out of the path that potentially only benefits them and they will throw so much shade any light will be deflected and leave you in a mediocre darkness. Meaning misery truly loves company and if the people around you don't have what you have or are not as happy as you they will do everything to give you perspective that you should not entertain.
The key to true happiness is living life morally, spiritually in tact but also independent of popular redundancy. Being original , thinking and speaking out loud for yourself allows you a freedom that basic people don't possess. Those who truly support you will cosign your choices of course with a modicum of hesitance from fear of failure but with tenacity and support you either way. Even if you come to them a million times complaining they should never just decide what is right for you period. Don't live your life muffled by fear of outside opinions, because those who are truly riding with you will ride until you get off.
Always be skeptical of anyone who is quick to downplay what makes you happy, the only job requirement of a true friend is to be there regardless of the outcome! They would never say "I TOLD YOU SO" They should never wish the utterance of those words to be necessary!
I say all this simply to say live happily, the world will always be opinionated, but the only person that can change, make or break you is you! The worst life to live is the one filled with what ifs. If someone makes you happy you are the only relevant decision maker! If you feel like starting a new trend and wearing trash bags as fashion, DO IT! Don't allow anyone to dictate what you do, what you want or who your with!
WHATEVER MAKES YOU HAPPY IS EXACTLY WHAT YOU SHOULD DO, HAVE AND KEEP. IF YOU ALLOW THE WORLD TO CHOOSE EVERYTHING FOR YOU, WHOSE LIFE IS IT REALLY! NHM
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