Nadyneworld aka NHM
So many ladies wonder about this possibility, does he exist, can he be found, where is he, where can I find him? You get so wrapped up in the concept of the world that you forget to actually meditate on the qualities of the man right in front of you. They say that one person can ruin it for all others, that is the furthest from the truth! The right man will show you unintentionally why every other man is irrelevant! The right man will make you feel like no one else ever could. In his presence you will feel beautiful, in his presence you will feel alone in the world of wonder he provides. A dream man may exist but who wants a dream more than reality?
Perfection is unattainable and yet the heart in its treacherous path seeks greener grass when the grass stood upon is perfectly fine!
The person you choose to love is never going to be perfect not in appearance or in action but in order to know how strong the love actually is you need to endure trials! No one is made for someone as the theory is told, two people whom truly love each other mold one another into exactly what they need individually!
The world says your not pretty enough, or skinny enough, you don't have the perfect hair or you don't have enough net worth, there is always some criticism. Maybe the person who loves you the most isn't the ideal for what is expected but what the fuck is an ideal when the person will ride for you beyond the limits?
The dream man shouldn't come with a check list or a checkbook, expectations can destroy a bond especially when they are unreasonable. What really can an imperfect woman demand from an imperfect man other than love, loyalty, respect and above all appreciation? If he is the right man he will give those things freely! The amount of love is insurmountable when the two in love value the gift of knowing love at all!
Will he always bring flowers, or say the perfect words, no not at all but what makes him a man is his ability to make you smile after an error, the tenacity to correct an emotional moment with genuine concern. I know most men seek arm candy, that chick that's desired for her exterior or the chick in popular demand for over exposure, every human wants to be proud to be in association but what besides a look has true value? Beauty is not exterior attributes, beauty is defined by the fine works a human demonstrates daily!
The baddest bitch is not the best and a real man knows that!
A real man cherishes his woman and sees her as beautiful even if the entire earth saw her as an atrocity visually!
A real man will walk proud with his woman, gift her with kind words just because she deserves them! He will make her a priority and not just something on the to do list!
Oh yeah let me show her some love to keep her content <<< Who in the world wants that right?
Does a dream man exist ladies? Not by a stretch! Every man comes with flaws just as you do, what makes him the man for you is the love he provides, the effort he gives freely, the honesty and loyalty he demonstrates in your face and behind your back!
If someone came to a real nigga and said yo bro your girl is not attractive or what do you see in her, his job off the rip is to cut that boy or little girl down instantly, a man who is loyal protects his Queen!
A man won't stand idol while anyone criticizes his lady because the only person qualified to judge is God first and himself second! Fuck an opinion if she treats you like a king, loves you flaws and all, if she puts up with your mess, cooks cleans and works hard to satisfy you on all levels cherish her like nothing else! Focusing too much on thighs ass and popular hoes can force you to miss your rib, or lose part of your backbone!
Yes… You fellas can find and sleep with hundreds of woman, you can run through every bad bitch with minty breath and nice accessories but when you have nothing, when you need a genuine compliment, when you need the warmth of something real, when you desire normalcy and yearn to be spoiled in boundless love, where will your bad bitches be?
A dream man does not have a certain build or a particular behavior pattern, a dream man is the man who teaches you to love yourself when others made you hate yourself! He is loyal to his word and steers clear of intentionally hurting you or building insecurity where it does not belong! A dream man can be without word and communicate through his eyes how much you mean to him!
If his eyes are empty when he looks upon your face, leave him in your dreams because the reality is although his love may be present it may not be strong enough or important enough to him to show you!
Like Deborah Cox explained in melodic genius….
ONE DAY YOU'LL WONDER WHY YOU EVER SAID GOODBYE AND YOU WILL WISH YOU WERE STILL RIGHT THERE BY HER SIDE OH BUT SHE WONT BE AROUND NO, YOU DON'T MISS HER NOW YOU DON'T MISS HER NOW, BUT ONE DAY YOU WILL
ONE DAY YOU'LL WISH YOU SAID THOSE WORDS YOU DIDN'T SAY AND IT WILL BE TOO LATE..
DON'T LET IT EVER BE TOO LATE TO BE THE RIGHT MAN FOR THE WOMAN WHO LOVES YOU TRULY! DON'T STAND BY AND PUT THE WORLD BEFORE THE ONE PERSON WHO SHOULD BE AT THE FOREFRONT OF YOUR WORLD. THERE IS NO PAIN GREATER THAN FINDING OUT YOU FORFEITED THE RIGHT WOMAN FOR ALL THE WRONG WORLDLY PURSUITS! LOVE GENUINELY AND LIVED BLESSED!
YOURS LITERALLY AND INTELLECTUALLY,
NHM AKA NADYNEZWORLD
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