SOCIAL MEDIA 

Created to Change lives or Destroy Them?

Written By: Nadynezworld 

From the day you are born you were created to worship, 

worship what?

 You enter adolescence and from the gate your expected to 

~be cool 

~wear the latest fashion

~ be popular 

~own an IPhone

~Be on social media 

Very seldom are you told that good character, a clear conscience and good morals have greater value then the facades created to steal you away from real life! 

The molding process we now see daily is one of such minuscule value and yet it has somehow become the world wide goal and the most important thing in life to 90% of the population. What was once revered as beautiful is now called basic, the ideal woman is no longer the woman who cooks, cleans and works hard, its the girl up the block who sells herself short, post her limitation by degrading her body, mind and reputation, she's a bottle service girl who twerks for dollars but calls herself successful because her likes are crazy and her followers are way up, she calls that blessed! 

The ideal man is no longer a hard worker whose loyal to one woman, he's a trap God who pops molly degrades woman and teaches you the art of 5 dollar hustling. The world has become blinded by screens and the expectations of the lost souls behind them. I myself am guilty of this. It use to be that insecurity stemmed from lack of self love but now insecurity stems from our time lines.

My body isn't built like that, 

my make up isn't that dope,

 If I can't afford those shoes am I not a bad b…..?

If I'm rich am I less than human?

The worldwide goal seems to be fame, money and shoes with names we can't pronounce. 

Mothers will post degrading photos five minutes later will post a picture kissing there children in the mouth. Fathers… what are those? Is it the guy who exploits his child giving complete access to the dark world, Making his child a worldwide target, does he even know that's what he is doing?

Every morning whether you believe in God or not do you get up grateful that you are alive before or after you've checked your instagram, Facebook, twitter, snap chat and emails? When you got up this morning did you call someone who truly loves you or did you go reply to your dm's, text messages and inboxes filled with strangers who don't know the first thing about you? 

How many times this month have you truly been there for those who matter, have you said kind words to the person who lays next too you or did you go reply to the desperate man or woman liking 20 pictures because your more grateful to them than the people who would die for you?

Success is a great thing, having money feels amazing, being revered, respected and fancied is dope we all know that, but when is it too much?

Amazing people have been slandered, beautiful genuine people have killed themselves because they've been bullied by cowards behind screens. Marriages and beautiful relationships have ended because you can't possibly tell the world that you have found the most amazing person in the world if you want to be desired and followed by people who hope to one day have you, ask yourself why do they even want you, when they don't even know you? Where you were once secure in the person you fell in love with you now doubt because they don't fit the mold created by people so consumed by social media they've become obsessed with your life instead of having there own!  

Have you ever lost something of great value but cheered yourself up by a fly selfie that got over a hundred likes, I think not and yet we've all been fooled by the splendor of such idiocy! 

Great men and woman have forfeited their free will gifted by God to turn themselves into conformed robots, similar to everyone else even when they've fooled themselves into believing they are original. Original people don't give too craps about fitting in because everything they do is meant to help them stand out. THEY ARE FEARLESS TO ADVERSITY! A real person doesn't care about opinions, they don't give into temptation because whats at stake of being lost is way too valuable to throw away for the temporary fame they get via social media! No human stays on top forever therefore those who ride with you in your actual life should come before those watching your life from a screen! 

Social media wasn't designed to become what it has. You can't scroll down your timeline without seeing the same disrespectful memes mocking disability death and what people look like. You can't find your dream person and post them up because a million single lonely motherlovers < you know what I meant) will tell you there not attractive enough or good enough for you never knowing that person played a part in many important facets of your life! 

I saw an article that was titled, celebrities who married the ugliest spouses, I swear I almost vomited. I can't imagine how those beautiful people felt or feel?

Who are any of us to determine what beautiful is? Is it really down too how many fake body parts you have, how many famous people you've slept with, waist trainers and teas that make you shit out your guts or about how many "bad b….s" and Trap fools liked and commented on your picture today? Is that how we calculate our worth?

Let me tell you something, as you read this I pray you learn something, I can't change the world I am not qualified but if I can change the perspective of even one person, this piece is a success! A persons private life, relationship, worth, career are none of your business unless it's your own to critique, if most of you spent more time developing your own life plan you'd have no time for critiquing others lives. 

If you weren't a side chick or side man you'd learn to value yourself enough to be someones everything. You don't get props for being the go too in secret, every time they leave you to go home to the person they hold at night you've robbed yourself of self worth and value! There is no honor in being disloyal, untrustworthy and promiscuous!! 

There is no value in success if it's not used to encourage the success of another! Social media is not life, its just an outlet people use to glorify or over compensate, myself included!

Value those who truly love you, work tirelessly to never forget those who love you in your simplest form because after the fame, after the likes, after you've exhausted your immoral appetite, after you've run out of things to buy and the excitement of those things dwindle it is unbearably lonely! Millions of dollars don't make you happy trust me I know from experience! Don't wake up one day wishing for the basics of life you once took for granted for the extremes that are temporary! 

Be a person who is fearless in moral standing because if you woke tomorrow and lost your assets and your net worth, the only ones who like and love you are those who see passed your post! 

Social Media if used properly can help you in your pursuits but if taken too serious; if overly valued you can lose yourself and destroy yourself! Don't allow the world to dictate your happiness or tell you what you rate on there valueless scale, measure yourself daily, reinvent yourself to your liking. Opinions don't pay a single bill nor do followers on social media outlets, last I checked likes don't turn into dollars and when a bill is due not one of your fans will fit the bill unless it benefits them! 

WE ARE ALL BEAUTIFUL, IF NO ONE TOLD YOU THAT TODAY, ALLOW ME TO DO THE HONOR! YOU THERE, THE ONE READING, YOU ARE STUNNING I DON'T CARE IF YOU WEIGH 120 0R 600 POUNDS, I DON'T CARE IF YOUR HAIR IS REAL OR FAKE, IF YOU DRINK NASTY DOODOO TEA, IF YOUR WAIST TRAINER IS SUFFOCATING YOU OR NOT. I DON'T CARE IF YOU EAT BURGERS OR SALADS, OR IF YOU WEAR JORDAN'S OR PAY LESS SHOES! I DON'T JUDGE ANYONE, MY IMPERFECTION MAKES ME A HYPOCRITE IF I DARED! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL WITH YOUR EYEBROWS ON FLEEK OR NOT, YOUR SWEATSUIT AND MESSY BUN IS FINE WITH ME, IF YOU FELLAS DON'T LOOK LIKE CYBORGS YOU ARE STILL HANDSOME YOU ARE STILL THE LOVE OF SOMEONES LIFE! STEP AWAY FROM THE SCREEN FOR ONE SECOND AND TELL YOURSELF, THAT YOU ARE PERFECT IN YOUR DESIGN, YOU MAY NOT BE BEAUTIFUL IN EVERY EYE BUT YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL IN THE EYE OF YOUR CREATOR! NO ONE IS BETTER OR LOOKS BETTER THAN YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE ONE IN BILLIONS! YOUR WORTH IS FOREVER YOURS EVEN IF SOCIAL MEDIA STOPPED EXISTING, YOU WILL ALWAYS BE WORTH MORE THAN THE LIKES YOU STRIVE FOR! GOD BE WITH YOU ALL!

REMEMBER THIS SOME OF THE MOST AMAZING PEOPLE IN THE WORLD DON'T EVEN GO ON SOCIAL MEDIA BECAUSE THEY KNOW THE DANGERS, MAYBE IT'S THOSE PEOPLE WE SHOULD ATTEMPT TO FOLLOW OR IMITATE!

YOURS LITERALLY AND INTELLECTUALLY 

NADYNEZWORLD AKA NHM 

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