Be HIS/HER Biggest Fan

Its hard sometimes to function properly when love is at its strongest or at its weakest, either way the feelings are still so powerful they can convince you nothing else exist, but a whole world exist no matter what emotions reside within us! NHM

Sometimes we become so complacent that when we actually have and feel love we tend to not nurture it, we ignore it because we arrogantly assume it'll be there when we awake. We hold onto injury and won't forgive the one person who we should value the most! As a woman a real woman I believe you do everything possible to love and support your man but it is a mans job to make his woman feel safe, loved, valued and protected, if any of those components are missing how can a person truly give everything? If a woman is great with a quarter of your effort just imagine how much more amazing she'd become if she felt the safest in your arms? If she felt what is uttered or saw proof that the struggle was worth her scars! 
In today's society there is no discretion, no modesty and definitely no substance! Men look where there told there supposed too! Loose conduct is now the dream persons career! 

There is no excuse for promiscuity to be quite frank how far can you really go with every stranger? I get why idiocy is blinding most people are impressed by the glamour of that dead end life style forgetting that one day substance is needed and one day the collection of your bad deeds is due! 
People in a committed relationship have a responsibility to one another, they support one another and include each other in the biggest or the smallest of successes and failures. 
If a person gives you there all you only have two choices love them enough to show gratitude by giving them your best or don't give them anything and remove yourself so they can one day get what they deserve! 
A woman should cook and clean, she should be independent and yet needy of her mans assistance! She should respect him allow him space treat him like a king and love him without filter but first the man has to give his woman a real reason to want to do all those things! If she's insecure make her believe she is the most beautiful woman in the world by the way you honor her!
Woman hide there pain well, they could laugh for hours only to hold back from crying! A woman will carry you if need be but at some point you have to be grateful and man enough to return the favor! 
I notice that so many people that are single or just nasty will one second glamorize the lifestyle but soon after follow with some meme indicating that what they really desire is..... 
Loyalty is so rare in this world, people stopped valuing people, everything is assumed discardable, if it isn't what your use too pay it no homage and yet sometimes the person that gives you what your not use too is the person your supposed to cherish first and foremost! 
If a man or a woman will do anything for you and there love is genuine without pretense or expectation why are you quick to stop appreciating them, 
BECAUSE THEY ARE SO RARE THEY CHANGE YOUR ENTIRE PERSPECTIVE AND YOU ASSUME YOU CAN FIND IT AGAIN! ASK ANYONE WHO LOST A GOOD ONE YOU NEVER FIND IT AGAIN BECAUSE NOTHING CAN BE DUPLICATED, NOT LOVE NOT LOYALTY AND DEFINITELY NOT SUPPORT! 
SOMETIMES LOVE CAN BE SO STRONG THAT THE MERE SCENT OF WHOM YOU LOVE CAN CHANGE YOUR DAY,  LOSING THAT LOVE  HOWEVER FOR WHATEVER REASON CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE! 
A couple should be one another's biggest support system, diary and partnership! 
Don't let a world of admirers take your focus off the person who should always be in the very front row, YOUR BIGGEST FAN! This applies to any love that is genuine! If you tell someone that you love them live up too it! If you don't love them or can't love them let them be loved elsewhere, the worst thing you can do to a person is break there heart! Yes many of us have came a long way since our broken heart but the scars always leave remnant and the wounds still have residual pains, any reminder a person will instantly shut down! 
Love with precaution, love without effort, words without action that is not love and is incapable of comparison! 
There is always someone willing to do your job but if what you have is amazing why allow resumes for your position to become applicable?! 
Love is not hard, relationships are not hard, its about the people involved that CREATE THE COMPLICATIONS! If you love someone don't just tell them show them! If you are cheating stop just be single! That is a heartbreak I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy!
Were all guilty of mishandling love but love is something of greater value! If someone loves you either love them back equally or take your half ass loving self to the left! 
Reality sometimes hits at the moment when you least expect and that revolving circle makes sure somehow that we feel the pangs of our bad doing! 
EFFORT IS WHAT SHOWS THAT LOVE IS GENUINE, A TEXT TO SAY I LOVE YOU OR SIMPLY THANK YOU. FLOWERS ON A REGULAR DAY AND A HELPING HAND JUST BECAUSE. A GIFT OF APPRECIATION, EFFORT THAT IS EQUAL WILL MAKE A COUPLE UNSTOPPABLE! THE THING IS MOST PEOPLE ARE SO BUSY ENTERTAINING MEDIOCRITY THEY LOSE SIGHT OF WHAT THEY POSSESS, HAVE YOU LOST SIGHT OF WHAT YOU POSSESS? HAVE YOU REALLY SAT DOWN AND THOUGHT ABOUT THE TYPE OF PERSON AND LOVE YOU ARE AND GIVE? 
I WANT YOU ALL TO TAKE A MOMENT TEXT OR CALL THE PERSON THAT YOU CALL YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER AND DONT JUST TELL THEM BUT SHOW THEM YOUR APPRECIATION, YOU CAN THANK ME LATER! AN APPRECIATED PERSON WILL DO FAR MORE THAN A PERSON WHO DOESNT FEEL APPRECIATED 100%.
WITH THAT SAID, PLEASE DON'T GET SO CONSUMED WITH VALUELESS STONES WHEN YOU ALREADY HAVE THE DIAMOND AT HOME! 

YOURS LITERALLY AND INTELLECTUALLY,
NADYNEZWORLD / NHM 
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