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Written By: NHM
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The Ladies Mindset

                                        

 Us ladies have a rather unusual way of thinking. We usually don't have a clue what's going on but we flow with it. Men although disorganized in life are pretty consistent with their thought process! We see each other as complicated beings because the way we love is different! Women nurture, men control. Woman are emotional, men are prideful! Woman can be very stubborn but men are also very stubborn, making it a mixture of all kinds of no bending, no winners and sometimes both parties lose. It's a women’s job through history to do certain things and a man’s job to provide, shelter and protect. If the roles are reversed in any way it's difficult to find balance. A women’s mindset is pretty basic because of learned behavior! We assume the role of the head because we've been quote on quote deprived but in favor of old school tradition, I think the head should be the man and the woman will forever be the neck. Respect for the roles is peaceful!

Submission was something I personally struggled with but through time you realize the sense in it all. It's learned from infancy that a woman has to assume the position of lesser authority and we don't adjust well because although we claim to want a king at times we want to be the king, running the peasant and aww hell everything in between. Were taught imperfection is a plague handed down to all of us but perfection is always expected, confusing huh? Trust me, in asking many women I started to wonder how in the world did I ever understand even my own thoughts. Our mindset expects everything instead of entertaining the possibility that imperfection makes for a bumpy but not impossible ride. Please don't misunderstand, expectations are good, but too many too fast is unreasonable. 

Men do not want a woman all on them all the time they don't want someone insecure needing validation 24/7 and they need to feel like the "MAN" even if there not always acting like one! If a man feels invalidated as a man he will be all sorts of bad! Men have to feel strong, empowered, respected and valued. It's as if they just constantly want to know that you see them in such high esteem.  As woman we know that anything affects us so if were hurt we have to go for the gut in every battle to ensure strength and endurance but that approach is a definite NO. Ignore learned behavior, forget  mindset! Words can destroy a relationship, lack of words creates distance and opportunity to go astray, too many words especially the harsh kind will turn love into hate, a friendship into nothing and an amazing companionship into a distance that breaks every bond and tie. 

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