Dear Babe Who are You?
By: Nadynezworld
This piece is dedicated to every woman who lives in a home she doesn't feel fully appreciated in and to the men who arrogantly neglect the woman holding them down with the assumption that she's incapable on moving on, sometimes some men think a woman's dedication doesn't come with an expiration date. The problem with that mind set is that millions of amazing woman are some where in the world being missed by an ex whose arrogance cost him an unsurmountable amount of pain. A perfect spouse does not exist but I will break some things down to help with sides!
Woman are creatures of habit, usually if they start the relationship doing certain things those habits don't change! (Unless your unappreciative behind stops being thankful!)
If she keeps a clean home thank her every time she cleans, does she leave the messes for you? Does it not take time, energy and strength to clean a home? Stop thinking she owes you a clean home! Us woman are built different, our emotional make up is worlds apart from yours! Most times were not asking for trophies just a damn thank you and some flowers sometimes, thanks in advance!
If she works and pays bills, comes home every night and is loyal you should be rubbing her feet more often than throwing attitude and shade!
Im curious, all the effort you put to beat lies into a woman's head you could spend actually loving her and treating her accordingly.
You think its easy working, cooking, cleaning, paying bills, trying to keep you happy all while being unappreciated and feeling unwanted? You try it and when you can't last an hour will you than appreciate her?
Men sure women can be difficult, emotions are seldom understood, she probably gets on your last nerve 99% of the time but step outside your bubble and imagine if you will a life without the love and dedication from this woman! Have you seen the single seen?
Men and woman are very different but one thing that is and will always be exact is our need for genuine love and loyalty!
While you give her attitude and forget to not just tell her but show her how beautiful she is too you, you open the door to a listening ear! Don't assume I'm saying its in any way okay to cheat absolutely NOT but that is the foundation for the thought that eventually leads to the action!
A woman should not be lonely in a home she shares with her man period!
Nobody has time for mood swings but out of love we deal with them, nobody should excuse disrespect but out of love we sometimes except the unfathomable!
A woman wears many hats, and maybe its easy for you too ignore but ask yourself what initially made you love this person if you even love them at all! If you don't love them why stay in there life! Waisted time is worse than waisted money!
Woman don't expect gifts every day and they don't expect perfection but if she holds you down, rubs your feet, cooks your meals sustains you and provides, if she believes in you and shows you love why in God's name would you take that for granted? If a hoe with no standards is more your type leave a Queen to find a real King and not some fuck boy posing as one!
This is real life and there are billions of people in the world, many seeking genuine love and respect, loyalty and honesty, if you want to assume you irreplaceable or some prize incapable of replacement, please be forewarned, you are stupid and very much replaceable!
If your dm's are crazy imagine hers when you've lost her interest!!!!!
Stop assuming she won't leave or she can't, most times you men mistake her fight to leave when her real battle is the fight she faces daily with herself to stay!
Honor the woman who loves you either with equal love or departure!
It is way too dangerous out there too play life games with promiscuity! It is also childish and lame to risk a real woman for some pathetic girl whose usually overexposed and overused, thats why you can bang hoes without commitment, they don't understand any other behavior!
I say all these things to remind some of you ungrateful men out there that you should not do to your lady what you can't handle her DOING too you!
If your not in love with her don't tell her you are! If you've lost attraction or never were attracted chances are you love her for all the wrong reasons! Or stay for all the wrong reasons!
ALWAYS KEEP WELL IN MIND THAT LOVE IS AN EMOTION AND CAN CHANGE! REMEMBER THAT A WOMAN WHO TRIES TO DO EVERYTHING FOR YOU IMPERFECTLY IS STILL 1 MILLION MORE TIMES VALUABLE THAN A WOMAN WHO CAN ONLY GIVE YOU ONE THING!
LOVE GENUINELY BE APPRECIATIVE DAILY BECAUSE TRUST ME WHEN I TELL YOU THERE IS NO WORSE FEELING THAN ACKNOWLEDGING TOO LATE THAT THE WOMAN THAT SHOULD'VE BEEN FOR YOU GREW OUT OF YOUR BED!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NHM
YOURS LITERALLY AND INTELLECTUALLY,
NADYNEZWORLD
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