DEATH OF THE PRESUMED SUGAR MOMMA
Written By: A REAL WOMAN
NADYNEZWORLD
SOCIETY TRULY BAFFLES ME, IF A WOMAN OVEREXPOSES HERSELF SHE'S A BAD BITCH, IF A WOMAN BEDS MEN FOR THEIR MONEY OR DESIGNER BAGS SHE'S AN ICON, IF SHE CAN TWERK AND TAKE NEATLY PHOTO SHOPPED PHOTOS IN THE TYPICAL WACK ASS CALVIN KLEIN 30 DOLLAR SPORTS BRA AND PANTY SHE'S A MODEL? ARE YOU SERIOUS? PLEASE TELL ME THAT WE HAVEN'T WORKED THIS HARD FOR EQUALITY FOR THIS TOO HAVE BECOME THE STANDARD!?
I WAS RAISED TO COOK, CLEAN, SERVE AND ALSO TO WORK MY ASS OFF FOR MY OWN RICHES, MY OWN DAMN SHOES AND BAGS, AND THANK GOD FOR THAT BECAUSE IN THE DAY THAT I EVER COMPROMISE MY INTEGRITY FOR SUCH FRUGAL PURSUIT THE DEATH OF MY ESSENCE WOULD BE IMMINENT!
I have heard this stupidity come out of the masses for way too long. I am a successful woman, I don't need a cosigner, I own what I have, I educated myself, I worked every day for this Gucci, Chanel, Versace. CONTRARY TO OPINION! My lips won't touch a cheap lipstick and my heart won't entertain no half ass love, I will treat mines like a king not because I'm dumb but because I AM A QUEEN! Not because I'm weak, or stupid but because I am a perfectionist and the place where I take the most pride, the place where I won't put limits, is in my relationship! If I'm in the best, so will he, If he falls or needs help getting where he needs to be, I am going to pay bills, work harder, cook dinner, commend him when the world things I should crucify him. I'm going to rub his feet, wash his clothes, sit pretty with my CEO life and if by chance he's too dumb to realize, that I don't bring crumbs to the table, that I am that table, that is in no way a reflection of me, it doesn't make me stupid, as a matter of pure fact it makes him the idiot, it's a reflection of his ignorance!
Of course women of my caliber will get judged, oh she ain't pretty, oh he can do better, he's only with her for her money, she's fat, she's so stupid, she's going broke, I laugh all that shit right to my bank account, and I just keep adding to my already beautiful resume!
Us women that represent independence and hard work don't need to chop and screw ourselves to get or keep any man! Trust me our DM'S be catching bodies, but our loyalty is 100 for one body! Once that black Dior Blazer comes on and that pencil skirt is laid on our imperfect bodies, once that Gucci almost briefcase sits on a corporate table those men with much more millions look upon us with pure attraction but we pay no mind, because money does not add value to an already established Queen!
Is it really so bad to change the past, where woman hid their talents to sit home and have tons of babies while their mediocre at best men are screwing their secretaries. Is it so crazy that a woman can give more than she receives without being called stupid. If a women is of a certain caliber and her man does what every stupid typical no control having ass man does why is she crucified more than the woman who has less financially?
I have never in my life bought a man anything to keep him, rather I do what's necessary to let him feel safe in knowing we are a team, if today you can't contribute tomorrow when you can I know you will because I held you down, why wouldn't you, even if there is any fact to why your there in the first place, even if it's about financial stability that will forever be that mans burden to carry! We are no less of a woman because were not kept!
I'm not much for name calling but in defense to all my independent Queens out there fuck your opinions! Half the hoes hating on you have no position except on there backs or on their knees! The hilarious part is most times there calling you stupid and questioning your purpose when you don't even know of their existence! If a hoe is hitting you up about yours you already won hahahahaha! Bitch who knew about you at all? Now you can have him, but guess what though, he don't even want you! Every day a Queen somewhere is dethroning a presumed king but that although painful too her is in no way a depiction of failure! See, because that fool is still in her phone right now, ghost following her. While the entire earth tries to belittle a real woman that nigga is laying next to the next 5 minute dusty ass hoe in pure agony from losing you the Queen Sugar momma lol!
I have no qualms with name calling matter of fact if holding mines down dubs me a sugar momma please drown my sexy ass in extra sugar because I do the most!
Guess what though most
PRESUMED SUGAR MOMMAS AIN'T NEVER HAD AN EX NOT WANT HER BACK PERIOD! I WILL BANK A MILLION ON THAT BECAUSE AIN'T NO EX OF MINES EVER MOVED ON TO BETTER.. GO AHEAD SILENT PAUSE AND NOW CALL ME AN ARROGANT BITCH!
TRUST ME ANY DUMB NIGGA CAN DO YOU DIRTY, BE TRIFLING, THINK HE'S WINNING BECAUSE HE'S EATING HIS CAKE AT HOME AND SNATCHING CRUMBS OUT THERE IN THEM STREETS DON'T YOU FRET THOUGH NO SERPENT IS UNTOUCHABLE EVEN THE MOST INFAMOUS SERPENT (SATAN THE DEVIL) KNOWS HIS FATE! YOU DON'T WIN WHEN YOU MISUSE KINDNESS, YOU DON'T WIN EVEN IF IT SEEMS YOU ARE BECAUSE EVERY ACTION, EVERY BAD INTENTION IS ACCOUNTED FOR! FELLAS YOU REMEMBER THAT THE NEXT TIME YOU CRUSH THE SPIRIT OF A QUEEN WHO HONORED YOU ENOUGH TO TRUST YOU!
ALL MY QUEENS OUT THERE WHO KNOW THIS STRUGGLE AND THIS RIDICULE WILL CRY AS THEY READ THIS. THESE MEN DON'T KNOW HOW HARD IT IS TOO LISTEN TO EVERYONE DOWN PLAY YOU, TO QUESTION YOUR POSITION BECAUSE SOME MOLD WAS CREATED THAT YOU DON'T FIT IN! THEY HAVE NO IDEA OF THE WHISPERS, THE STARES AND THE GIGGLES AT YOUR EXPENSE, MOST TIMES THEY THEMSELVES STOP APPRECIATING YOU, THEY GET ARROGANT THE GLITTER OUT IN THE WORLD TEMPORARILY BLINDS THEM, BUT YOU AND I KNOW THAT GLITTER IS JUST REMNANTS OF SHINY DUST, SOLID GOLD OR IN YOUR CASE A GOLDEN HEART THEY'LL REGRET LOSING THAT ONE DAY! ONE DAY WHEN THEY LOSE RESPECT FOR THEMSELVES DUE TO MATURITY AND REALIZATION. THEY WILL HONOR YOU WITH AN APOLOGY, THEY WILL BEG YOU BACK AFTER THEY DOG RAN THEM STREETS, THEY WILL CREATE A VOID SO BIG NOTHING WILL FILL IT, NOT EVEN A HUNDRED BAD BITCHES! THEY WILL ONE DAY BE READY TO BE EVERYTHING YOU BEGGED THEM TOO BE AND THAT DAY YOU WILL SMILE, YOU WILL FORGIVE HIM BUT YOU WILL HONOR HIM WITH GOODBYE AS YOU WALK AWAY IN THE ARMS OF THE MAN WHO REPAIRED THE PIECES OF YOUR HEART HE BROKE!
DON'T YOU DARE SHAME YOURSELF BECAUSE SOMEONE PLAYED YOU!
REAL MEN WON'T PLAY YOU, THEY WILL HELP YOU CONTINUE TO BUILD THE EMPIRE YOU BOTH WILL PLAY ON FOREVER!
TAKE HEED MEN, WHAT YOU DO IN THE DARK WILL ONE DAY SEE LIGHT BUT EVEN AS ITS DONE IN DARKNESS IT IS SEEN! YES YOU MAY BE GOOD ENOUGH TO BREAK THE SPIRIT OF A GREAT WOMAN BUT I HOPE YOUR THAT STRONG WHEN THE TIME COMES FOR YOU TO BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE AND BROKEN IN ORDER TO PAY THE DEBT OF YOUR ACTIONS!
I LEAVE YOU WITH THAT....
YOURS LITERALLY AND INTELLECTUALLY
NADYNEZWORLD
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