The Ex Factor

EX FACTOR 
By: Nadynezworld


I get a lot of questions pertaining to ex's so I decided to cover all the bases on this here piece.
Ladies this is a matter of past experience and opinion..
PLEASE ENJOY 

Woman love with their whole heart when it's real. They will hold you down good or bad therefore if a relationship ends they usually take it personal.
What did I do wrong,
What didn't I do enough of,
Is she prettier than me? All types of personal examination questions. 
(None of which are truly relevant its just a mental thing we do!)

You work so hard to up build a man and sometimes that makes them over confident almost arrogant. When you finally leave, there will be times you feel relieved! Sometimes you start to believe your completely over it,  sometimes when your lonely you may even begin to miss all the good times, but ask yourselves,
WHY DID YOU LEAVE? 
What made it easier for you to take that step...
Answer: All the bad shit!!

Nothing is wrong with you for missing an ex, after all there was a reason you loved them in the first place, it simply proves that your love was genuine, it definitely doesn't mean your ex deserved any of it!

For so many years it was a mans world! Every one followed the opinion of one sex, Dominated and overpowered many woman didn't use their voices. It was easier to stay than to leave, it was convenient to have the title without any of the perks of real (equal) love, but times have changed!
Woman now are aware of their worth even if they try to ignore it out of mere convenience! 
You don't have to stay, but if you choose too make sure the love equals out!
If there isn't a balance, a firm foundation is impossible! 

Ladies you are beautiful, what one man ignores another will cherish, that doesn't make the pain any easier, it doesn't take away the loneliness, it won't take the feeling of failure away, but rather than focus on those few negatives, really think about everything you did to make your ex happy......

Did he appreciate any of it?
What is he doing right now to win you back?
Is he any different than he was when you left?
The answer is probably Nothing, No and No!

Missing an ex is only temporary! 
Remember that you are priceless, you are strong, and you have a story to tell. Those who deserve to be part of that story, need to understand, and appreciate the author!. Love YOU first!
YOU ARE A QUEEN AND YOUR KING IS ON HIS WAY...

Yours Literally and artistically,
NADYNEZWORLD 

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