Ladies You Can do Anything, and conquer Everything!

By: Nedynia H. Martinez

Dreams are part of everyones life.
When we sleep we dream, and when we are awake, we day dream.
Sometimes dreams become our driving force.
From the little girl who dreams of becoming a princess,
Or the little girl who sleeps in her tootoo.

Most individuals have several different dreams.
Each dream vividly emblazened and equally relevent to our future.
The time escapes us and slowly these dreams either manifest, or they wither away,
in a subconscience area that we save as a wish list.
Real life is about work, bills, parenthood, relationships, and responsibility.
Most times individuals get the order completely backwards,
tradition is no longer in style.
So many people have children first, end up single and struggling.
Making every dream take the back seat in order to give there all to a new reality.
Without regret woman dedicate themselves to family life
and never have the time to pursue anything extra.
I too made these same choices.

My whole purpose for this piece is to encourage woman to pursue their dreams.
Being a mother is by far the most amazing experience and has no comparison.
But that in no way means that you can't aspire to do and complete all the goals
you set before and during motherhood.
Sometimes us mother's get so wrapped up in taking care of our families that we stop dreaming
about those little things that boost our confidence, and belong solely to us.
As I said before being a mom, or a wife has no comparison. No love of anything can compare,
but as adults sometimes we need a little something that does'nt involve our families directly.
Sometimes we need to complete other desires to help us to complete the puzzle.
We can have everything, amazing children, great marriages and wonderful careers.
We can be amazing mothers, and wives, but we can also be entreprenuers, or successful business women.
We can dance in our tootoo's, or become Queens.
Life only has the limits that we create or allow to stop us!
If you can dream it you can achieve it, just ensure that one dream does'nt compromise the other.
Or that you neglect one responsibilty for personal gain.
It's important to maintain humility, and remain human, meaning never let monetary gain
overshadow love, family, and humanity.
Always give back when you can, Be thankful every moment, and praise God for every blessing!
life is too short to be limited and long enough to be fullfilled!
Make a statement and leave a legacy that inspires the next individual!
BE THE GREATEST YOU THAT YOU CAN BE!

WITH LOVE NHM

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