"Dreams Don't Come true If your Always Sleeping"

REALITY CHECKS

By: Nadynezworld

aka NHM 

Most people have dreams, wishes, ambitions and wants but if all you do is imagine its impossible to see what you desire materialize! So if it's within your reach don't just observe stick your arm out, grab what's rightfully yours! NHM 

Life has so many obstacles, to be quite honest the hurdles never stop, some harsher than others but they never end for any of us. If life were easy we'd all be masters at living and if we observe our surroundings we'd easily see that there's no perfection anywhere on this earth. 

It's so easy to be run down by excuses, be it marriage, children, circumstance we all have times when we make an excuse for falling short. It's my opinion that excuses are a plague they rot us from within because not only do they stumble us, they have the ability to make us feel worthless! 

As a young lady raised in the Lower East side in one of them high rise project buildings, graffitied walls and hallways that have so many secrets its dangerous to be too silent, it was embedded in my mind that success only belonged to those born in diamond diapers and golden cribs. Ghetto children had limited chances if they got out at all! Sadly I lost so many friends to gun violence, suicide, homicide, prison terms and drugs that the mere mention raises the hair on my arms. Choices become a luxury but they exist. No one can tell me that all there is to life is a corner hustle or the life of criminality! Everything in life starts with a choice!

Many of us were raised with good parents who may have made bad choices, the term learn from experience should be suffice to allow you to be better than what you've seen and experienced! No matter what happens in life BE A GOOD PARENT! BE YOUR CHILD'S HERO! Even if you don't have a pot to piss in, love is free!!! It is your example that will teach your child to be successful, it'll teach them to dream in reality!

Nowadays children don't have many positive role models, being an attractive woman is judged by how many photos you can take half naked, get a lot of likes and the woman thinks she's the picture of success, forget integrity, moral, and respect. Sexy does not equate to naked! I want my babies to dream bigger than lust and sex sells modo's! 

AND SO SHOULD YOU

See, dreams are beautiful when allowed to be fruitful, to watch something you controlled grow is amazing. Be accessible to your ambitions. When your sleeping on the job you can't be profitable or  reliable. It's not about what you gain financially it's about who you become in the bigger scheme of things. Every one's life is worth so much, every moment you waste is one someone lost, meaning while your alive make every second count, Not with the "I Only have one life" so I'ma live it wild and crazy, cause hunnies that gets old real fast and ain't nothing cute about a 40+ person trying to look cool in a club, single with no direction, except the mediocre 9 to 5 that pays for the occasional bottle, real talk!

At some point growing up is crucial and dreaming becomes a task because you no longer have the tenacity to possess anything you can imagine. They say it's never too late but for those who lost there lives way to early that way of thinking is both insensitive and selfish.

Every day you get to wake up is a privilege, treat it as such!

Dreams dont come to fruition if you remain comatose! Wake up from excuses, laziness, circumstance, and chilling with your buddies, bottles don't raise children properly and name brand clothes and gadgets don't make you a good parent, it just says you can cover error with materialism! Be the epitome of heroism for your offspring and anyone in your presence! 

Be good and worth it!

Make the creator happy that he created you!

BE SAFE DREAM BIG!

NHM 

@NADYNEZWORLD